Here’s How To Become Your Own Leader Again

We are leaders of our lives until we gave our strength away.

In my opinion, the only thing a leader need is clarity of the direction that he/she is going towards such that he/she can lead everyone towards it. Therefore, as success differs from people to people, for you to lead yourself towards your success, the only necessary thing is to figure out what you want to do with your life. In the understanding of what you want, you will not be entertaining things that are not beneficial to yourself and proceed towards your desire with courage. No one can distract you by telling you what you are to do because you will know what you have to do. So, here’s an example of 8 questions to figure out what you want:

1. What makes you happy?
2. What makes you upset?
3. Why do you do what you do?
4. Are there other ways to accomplish what you want to while keeping you happy at the same time?
5. Why are you not doing what you want?
6. If there is a chance to change, will you do so?
7. Why not take the chance now?
8. If you can only live for another week, will you do what you are doing now?

Even if these questions don’t give you a clear idea of what you want, at least, you will understand what you don’t want to do. Hence, you may be able to explore other options that may be of interest to you with assertiveness. In turn, putting yourself back into the pilot seat of your life; becoming back the leader of your life.